Escort Safety: Prevention and Recourse7425019
For female escorts the adult erotic solutions business can be an extremely frustrating and dangerous occupation. Whether or not you work for an escort agency or as independent escort all escorts get their share of flakes, practical jokers and time wasters. A bad client is one who tends to make an appointment then cancels at the final moment, or 1 who stands you up and never calls to apologize. Other types of poor customers purposely send the escorts to poor addresses like it's a funny college prank.
Even more demeaning is when the escort gets to the door and the customer sends them away saying I do not like the way you look. Sometimes escorts get customers who pay with counterfeit money, and other people claim they forgot their money and provide to create you a check which is generally bogus. You can envision the aggravation when you agree to take the call, stop what you are doing, go home, shower, get all cleaned up, put on good clothes, do your hair and makeup, the works, and when you get there it turns out to be a total scam.
Worse however, is when an escort goes into a call and the client is high on alcohol or drugs, or is some religious nut attempting to hurt you because he does not approve of what you do, or even more screwed up is the customer is some "no life" hobbyist who thinks just because you're there you have to "do" them or else he'll give you a poor review on the escort review boards. Now it's usually the latter situations when a customer has higher expectations or demands for your adult services than you provide and when you inform them you don't do full service they get awfully pissed. They want their money back, and when you say no that's when the verbal abuse and occasionally the physical violence starts.
Harmful, abusive, and violent clients can effortlessly be identified with if your appointment is an outcall and you meet them at a hotel. The hotel registration procedures will definitely allow law enforcement to ascertain the real identity of the customer. If the appointment is an incall and the customer comes to your home, the most dangerous problem for the escort is that the customer now also knows exactly where you live. I would certainly recommend escorts do not do incall appointments with clients they do not know and have not cultivated into great and trustworthy clients.
While some escorts require referrals from another well known escorts, and others have some information verification procedures, escorts should become wary if the caller has no referrals or references, or is reluctant to offer any. There may be a great purpose for it and that might be bad news.
Till now, escorts had no simple and viable way of understanding what any client may be like in advance. Escort Security web sites like National Blacklist are extremely sincere in their efforts. They have a nationwide data base of poor clients for all independent escorts and escort agencies to benefit by. The database is searchable and just by inputting the client's phone number or email, you can see if any escort or escort agency has ever registered a complaint about them. It is a members only site but the cost is nominal $19.95 per month compared to what it offers you in return. Just ask your self what your time, or better however, your health is worth.
So, this is how it works. All you have to do when you get a contact from a new caller is ask them for their number if it is not in your caller ID and inform them you have to check your schedule and call them back. Then go to National blacklist and log in. Through the searchable database, put in their phone number and see what comes up. If there is a posting, based on what you read, you will have a better concept as to best handle the client or to choose not to see them at all. It's that easy.
This website is a great tool and it expenses only 66 cents a day which is absolutely nothing compared to the time, money, and frustration, it will save you from taking a bad call. As a tool for escorts I'd say this is invaluable.
The reason this website can function is that most antisocial types generally have constant personality traits and character traits that repeat themselves more than and more than, a lot like child molesters who can by no means be cured and turn out to be repeat offenders. So it is with poor customers who try and mess with escorts.
